Leadership is Doing

Leadership is Doing

One of my favorite authors is Bob Goff. His writing is always challenging, positive, and engaging for me. His focus is usually on what “love does” and in one of his latest releases Goff writes:

…we’re known for our actions. The power of love is in the sacrifice and commitment it requires. Sacrifice and commitment always travel with love and action. Love looks like showing up with hands to help even when we don’t know what to do. Love looks like stopping by even if we don’t know what to say. Simply put, love doesn’t just think about it; love does it.

— Bob Goff, Live in Grace, Walk in Love (p. 13)

In my world love and leadership go hand-in-hand, so when Goff writes love, I often read leadership into it. The quote above struck me so much because I believe that leaders are known for their actions. If your actions are not telling the narrative of your leadership life, then perhaps you are not leading where you intended to go. Taking the time to reflect on your actions and the results on those around you has proven, to me, to be the absolute best use of my time in a day. That’s not just true for those in positions defined as “leadership”, but it is true for every single one of us.

Every day, teachers actions are leading students who are looking for a path. Every day, secretaries actions are communicating empathy to an often beleaguered staff. Every day, custodians actions are communicating care for each person they are around. Every day, technicians are communicating partnership with the teachers and students they assist.

Our actions ARE leadership, whether we mean them to be or not. Understanding that, and then accepting that, means that we change how we do. We make sacrifices, we establish new priorities, we commit to doing what it takes to lead those around us where we intended to.

I know this, if all of us took the time to reflect on our actions and then commit to leading by doing, this world would certainly be a better more joy filled place.


In 2020 I am going to #BringTheJoy

In 2020 I am going to #BringTheJoy

In 2018 I tried to blog for 64 days straight. There were 64 days left in the year and I really struggle with consistent reflection on the things in life. The world needed a little more love in it and so 64 Days of Love was created.

I made it 18 days. Which, honestly, was 17 more than any previous try at blogging consistently.

I did not blog at all in 2019. My posts on Twitter and Facebook were significantly down as well. A picture here, a comment there, a lot about Houston Astros games. That’s about it though.

I have spent a fair amount of time reflecting on how I want 2020 to be different than the previous 39 years of my life and it struck me that I need to focus more on finding joy in the things around me. I certainly am not a downer by any means, and I think I bring more joy to those who know me. But there is a lot about 2020 that will be worth celebrating, and there will be a lot of reasons we will NEED to find joy in tough situations.

So my 2020 commitment/resolution/goal is simple. I want to “bring the joy” to those around me. I want to point it out. I want to tell you about it. I want highlight the joy that is surrounding me in my day-to-day life. I want to change the trajectory of my 2020 (and hopefully some of yours) in an unmistakably positive way!

So with that, I am not committing to 64 days, but to a year of documenting joy. Not just here on a blog, but on Twitter, on Facebook, with postcards, with post-its, with anything I can–I am going to #BringTheJoy.

Hopefully more than 18 times this time.